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 Pyar Karna Galat Hai Ya Sahi ?

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PostSubject: Pyar Karna Galat Hai Ya Sahi ?   Sun Mar 30, 2008 5:20 am

Salam1

Shadi se pehle ager pyar kare kissi se to ye kia galat hai?

Shadi se pehle aur shaadi ke baad hum orton main kia changing atti hai?
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PostSubject: Re: Pyar Karna Galat Hai Ya Sahi ?   Sun Mar 30, 2008 7:16 am

Salam1


Pyar Kiya nahin jaata But Hojaata hai !Sis Aval to Aurton larkion Ko Nazrein Nichi karleni Chahién So I dont Think Ke pyaar hojaaega sauf agar usski tarafdekhe jaanbuj ke !

Aur Saath I think Ke surah noor me likha hai ke Chupchup ke milna Its HARAM



Shaadi ke baad to karsakte hain sirf apne Mari se !!


Hope U wIll understand!!!

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PostSubject: Re: Pyar Karna Galat Hai Ya Sahi ?   Sun Mar 30, 2008 8:22 am

jahan tak muje pata hai, pyar karna gunah nahi, na hi galat hai, but pyar ka galat istimal na kare, maine sirf pyar ki baat ki hai, milne ki nahi, hum sab jante hai ke chup chup ki dosti karna gunah hai but mera sawal ye hai kia sirf pyar ager sache dil se aur niyat se kare mean pyar paak ho, mean uksa galat istemal na kare to i think pyar karna galat nahi, pyar to dil mai hota hai, beshak vo pyar maa baap se kio na ho,
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PostSubject: Re: Pyar Karna Galat Hai Ya Sahi ?   Sun Mar 30, 2008 6:58 pm

Salam1 o Alaikum!
Praise be to Allah,who owns everything.

English:
Dear brothers and sisters,Loving a non-mehrem isnt allowed in Islam.But if for instance,you do start loving someone,it is better that you two get into nikaah as soon as possible,otherwise,all the time u talk and see each other,you will bedoing a sin,for which u will answer on the day of judgement.

Urdu:
Behano aur bhayyo,gher mehram say piyar karna jaiz nahe,balka gunnah hai.Laikan agar piyar ho jata hai tu bajaye us ko lamba karnay keh,foran nikaah kar laina chahaye,ta keh na dil toootay na hi kisi ko koi noksaan ho,na badnaami.Magar agar nikaah keh beghair piyar karnay gunnah hai aur us ka jawab daina ho ga qiyamat keh din.

ALLAH KNOWS THE BEST.

FEE AMAANILLAH
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PostSubject: Re: Pyar Karna Galat Hai Ya Sahi ?   Mon Mar 31, 2008 4:24 am

Abdullah bhai aap ne bilkul sahi kaha, but ager insan nikah na kar paye u know aaj kal ka mahol kessa hai, parents ko manana, ... etc lekine ager kissi se pyar ho jata hai to uss se baat matt karo, chehra matt dikhao jab tak nikah na ho jaye, paas matt ane do ... aur yeh guanh to nahi, pyar ho jata hai jesse naina ne kaha kiya nahi jata, ager apko koi acha lagne lagta hai to iss main hume kia karna chaiye? simple si baat hai nikah kar le but nikah karne ke liye najane kitne mushkilo ka samna karna parta hope aap samaj rahe hai... ke mai kia kehna chahti houn !!!
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PostSubject: Re: Pyar Karna Galat Hai Ya Sahi ?   Mon Mar 31, 2008 9:44 am

Salam1


jii sahi kaha aapne!!sis!
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PostSubject: Re: Pyar Karna Galat Hai Ya Sahi ?   Mon Mar 31, 2008 4:04 pm

Salam1 o Alaikum!
Praise be to Allah Who is All-Knowing!

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As you said,that love happens and u dont do,it just happens.
I have a answer to that as well.
Do you know that,Allah created man for his worship.Do u know that Man and Jins were created only to worship Allah and nothing else.
And worshipping Allah includes following the commands of Allah.
I understand that NiKAAH isnt easy but I am afraid thata is the only solution.
The point is you have to decide whom do u love the most:
-Allah Subhan wa Talla,OR
-The person you love.

I know everyone will say We love Allah,then if you do love Allah,do what Islam says; sacrificing what ur Nafs says.To overcome one's Nafs is the most important thing.

Man bears responsibility for all those actions in which his self was involved. If the action was wrong, he has no option but to submit to the "punishment" which is the necessary result of his action. It will not avail him to offer excuses that he acted heedlessly in a fit of abstraction, or with a good intention. ‘His own heart will bear witness against him’ (Qurân 75:14; 6:165).

Second,do you know that all things which are done for Allah are hard to get in this world and all things which are backed by Iblis are easier to achieve.Its easy to do a sin then to restrain from a sin,for example.

Falling in love is easier than Nikaah and you can see for urself,which path is being supported by Satan and which by Allah.

No doubt,this life is the test for those who want to follow the path of Allah.
Jannat is not for sale,but Jahannum is.
Getting in Janat is difficult but getting in Jahanum is very easy just like doing nikaah is difficult and falling in love is very easy.Watching a movie or listening to a song seems so nice,where as saying namaz seems to be like a burden(May Allah Forgive Us).

Dear brothers and sisters,the choice is urs.What you want to do?
Islam doesnt allow a man or woman to talk or even look at a non-mehrem except in cases where it is a necessity.

Show your love for Allah by sacrificing your nafs,as u do in Ramadhan while fasting.
Show your love for Allah by not doing anything which goes against his commands.

Remember how will you face Allah,on the day of Judgement.Are we ready for it?
When you love someone you present yourself in the best possible manner,you are carefull in doing what your loved ones likes and what he or she doesnt like.

Love Allah and Worship Allah as he deserves to be Loved and Worship.

May Allah give you hidayat.Ameen.
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PostSubject: Re: Pyar Karna Galat Hai Ya Sahi ?   Tue Apr 01, 2008 1:46 pm

No Comment!!! just Mashallah
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PostSubject: Re: Pyar Karna Galat Hai Ya Sahi ?   Thu Apr 03, 2008 4:47 am

Ameen, Allah sab ko hidayte de
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PostSubject: Re: Pyar Karna Galat Hai Ya Sahi ?   Wed Apr 16, 2008 8:22 am

Salam1
Ji Allah sab KO hidayet De !Aur Siarat é mustaqim pe chalaaee!!

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PostSubject: Re: Pyar Karna Galat Hai Ya Sahi ?   Mon Apr 21, 2008 3:13 am

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PostSubject: Re: Pyar Karna Galat Hai Ya Sahi ?   Tue Nov 25, 2008 6:28 am

i agree with Brother ABDULLAH
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